the comment of Why Boys Don't Play With Dolls

actually, i really don't understand why boy just like gun and truck. perhaps, the society told us. these stuff is belong to man. woman play this kind of toy is inappropriate. we always follow the rule which was made by ancestor. we don't judge these rule. even we have question on the rule. because everybody was cultivated by this thought since we born to this world. if you broke this rule. it means you will receive some uncomfortable judgement. when i was kid, my mother always bough bb gun for me. she think i must love this kind of toy without doubt. it is very interesting question for us. if your son like playing barbies . what will you think about your son. Gay? our parents always educate us. ths behavior is inappropriate for your gender to do. is this truth? we know this kind of request is ridiculous. however, we have to care about the other people's opinion for you. normally, we will choose the behavior which can fullfill society's expectation. it is not our mind. in the future, i will hope i can give the space for my kid to think about what they wanted.

q1 if your child like barbies, what will you do?

q2  if your daughter ask you to buy one toy gun gor her. what is your answer?

the comment of Mom's Unforgiving Mirror

In essay, we can see daughter represent the image of mom. Therefore, mom always focus on child's appearance. They always pursuit the perfect on their child. Just like the writer have said. If you dress a holy terrible cloth. So many people will judge about your mom. No one want to be discussed in the public. Actually, my mom have the same behavior. She always ask me to wear casual in some occasional place. When i think i am perfect. My mom always find some flaw and mock at me. I think boy and girl is the same. when they reach certain age. They will focus on their appearance. They want to show perfect to the girl or man. It is innate for human beings.

when your mom talk about your appearance, what will you think?

do you agree you have the similar face which inherit from your mom?

the question of The Struggle to Be an All American Girl

If you have the similar situation to the author, what will you do?

how do you feel when your family immigrate to the other countries which have the huge different cultures from your country?

The Struggle to Be an All American Girl

i have read the similar book before in Taiwan. In this book, the author describe about when he was child. His family decided to immigrate to USA. I think no matter you are Taiwanese or Chinese will meet the same problem as the writer. Their family always ask  their child learn their mother language. In my opinion, Chinese is really difficult language. Even English is more east than Chinese. Even i am Taiwanese, i always fail in my Chinese class. It is very hard working for kids. in addition, they always meet a question about which is their race? Chines or  American? In their conscious, they will feel i grow up America. Therefore, i belong to them. However, the native will recognize them. On the other hand, their ancestor is from China. They can't disassociate this blood. However, they don't have any idea about their home country. Is they belong to them? I realize the writer prefer to celebrate Cingo de Mayo than Chinese New Year. To identify which they belong is not vital. Just have self-conscious and recognize theiselves is more important.